The Romantic Man - a Dream of Every Woman?
More than once you were probably contemplating, what is the ideal of a man. A man, who will be liked by every woman. What kind of qualities should he have? Very often it’s heard, that women desire romantics. They dream about a gentleman, who will write love poems, spread rose petals on the pillow and sing serenades under the windows. But what is the truth? Would women actually name romanticism precisely on the first place among values of perfections? Or is it that maybe, women were looking for this value several generations back, and now modern ones stand firmly on earth, mentioning romanticism only when they want to break up with someone?
One thing is sure. In the last few years women became pickier. They are not satisfied with the first come admirer, they want to feel seduced and adored. Women’s magazines on many pages elaborate about qualities, which should possess the perfect man. A list of necessary values of that kind of embodying of masculine virtue goes on indefinitely. The ladies, reading the press compare reality with the example. Not being able to find any similarities, they sometimes give up on the precise knowledge of the met person. They don’t give him a chance right from the beginning.
The modern man should be masculine as well as very sensitive. The media create a picture of a delicate, sensitive man, who at the same time should be “macho”: tough and decisive. That ideal man should be touched to tears when along with his partner (gladly) watches romantic comedies, but in a tough situation he should give her support. He should know how to beat up a scoundrel in a dark street, carry a dresser on to the fourth floor (even when the building has an elevator) also fix a car. Additionally he should be athletic, properly muscled but also intelligent, educated and well- read. Familiar with politics, art and the newest scientific inventions. Additionally he should also be knowledgeable of the latest trends in the fashion world, he should know what hairdo would be the best for his partner and also be able to council her as to the tint of nail polish.
A detailed list with absolutely necessary qualities, without which the man basically isn’t worth even one glance, probably wouldn’t fit on one sheet of paper. Women's press without interruption prints quizzes and advice, where in a simple way you can compare the realistic man to the perfect one. It is easy to do such a test and after answering a few – or more questions – receive an immediate answer. Seriously treating this type of information, one could actually never meet a person fulfilling all the necessary conditions.
Reasoning says to find honesty, goodness and loyalty in the ideal candidate. The rest of the qualities, are already the individual business of every woman. Nevertheless it is a fact, that romanticism gives a woman a feeling of being loved and being that “one and only”. Flowers, candlelight dinners or small gifts, reminding about how valuable is the one chosen by the heart. Such behaviors will always find respect and gratitude. It will bring about, that the love will flourish, and in a long term relationship “won’t rust”. Feelings will find their reflection, because sometimes the fixed sink or help in hard physical jobs won’t be enough. Love can fade away, and firing it up again can be exactly that sparkle created by a romantic word or a walk together.
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