The Ideal Place for the First Date

The chosen location of the first date can be a deciding factor about the future of such friendship. The place where we estimate to invite the newly met person will allow her to appraise our intentions and even our character. You can actually invite to a lot of places, the choice doesn’t limit itself only to a restaurant or a movie theater, although those solutions are tested and true.

Even in the case of the most popular solution – meaning a date at a restaurant, bar or other place serving meals you have to precisely think how we want to spend the time. The type of locality is very important, the existing atmosphere there, as well as the type of served meals.

If we want to impress the invited person we should decide on a restaurant which is possibly the most elegant, very popular, serving exquisite meals and good alcohol. Flowers and discreet glow of the candles will complete the elegant expression of such an evening.

If you’re a lover of a freer atmosphere and you want to keep a relaxed tone of the date – think about choosing a small pub serving regional meals. The choice of such a solution could be a good pretext to start an interesting conversation on the topic of traveling and other cultures. Chinese, Mexican, Greek or maybe Italian food? A pleasant example of how the date will go in a restaurant serving meals, coming straight from hot Italy can be a date as portrayed in one of the stories by Walt Disney. Innocent spaghetti in this example turned out to be a thread connecting two soul mates.

Or maybe invite on a date to the pub or disco? It tends to be loud in the pub, which could successfully disallow talking, which in all practicality – getting to know the other person. This is actually a good solution in a sense – that in case the date turns out to be a dud – it’s easy to find pretext to end the meeting. The disco on the other hand eases the appreciation of similar musical tastes and is a test of “compatibility” during dancing.

Another way of spending the first date is going to a concert or some kind or cultural event. If our tastes aren’t too diverse and for example we don’t force the lover of techno music to listen to concert in a philharmonic dedicated to tasteful professionals of music from the baroc era, the meeting can become interesting and exciting. It’s worth it though to make sure however, that the invited person shares our interests, or is at least open for new life events. Opera, theater, cabaret, art presentations in the gallery – many options and it only depends on us what we chose.

You should also think about going to the cinema together. And here, just like in the case of the concert, you have to decide first on the type of movie. Most women will be of course interested in watching a romantic comedy or a drama, and men naturally more often choose sensational or war movies. So maybe a good solution would be watching a type of movie like cloak and dagger or a romantic comedy with the elements of an action movie? A date in the movie theater is a good solution for shy people and ones who have a hard time starting new relationships, and after watching the show you can always go someplace pleasant to talk about the emotions experienced after the movie.

Another option worth thinking about is spending time in the open air. A park, garden, a trip to the mountains or to the lake is a pleasant way to start a new relationship (it’s worth it to get prepared earlier for such a date and have a surprise basket filled with goodies prepared for a surprise picnic).

Or maybe right away on the first date show your originality and creativity? Looking together at antiques, a visit to the observatory or carnival rides are not that improbable ideas. Do you feel like disclosing your interests right away? To show yourself from the more interesting, uncommon side? Surprise with unforgettable impressions?

Actually every option is a good solution, it’s important however that we feel good about ourselves at the place of the first date and avoid areas in which we don’t feel comfortable. This could place us into an artificial, forced atmosphere.

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